- I think the first and most important thing a girl likes is physical attractiveness. Ladies, I know you tell your friends that you don't base people on looks. You know what I have to say about that? You are all LIARS. Guys, we don't "friendzone" you because we only see you as a friend or a brother. We do it because we would be embarrassed to call you our boyfriend. We don't think you are attractive enough to date. But you look okay enough to call you our friend.
- You have to be funny. Seriously, if you can't make a girl laugh, then she's not into you. Even the girls that act like snobs like to laugh. If you're trying to get with a girl like that and you've constantly been trying to make her laugh, just give up. There is a reason she won't open up o you in a humorous way. Hehe... humorous.
- This goes for girls and guys. The person that you are trying to date should make you want to be a better you. the best you that you can be. If this person is constantly tearing you down and feel bad, you probably shouldn't be seeing them.
- This one is probably optional for some girls. A guy that can sing or play guitar is really cool. Some girls might not really care. In fact, I'm sure there are some girls that think a guy who can't sing is cute. Personally, I wouldn't be okay with that. I'd like someone who makes up for my lack of a singing voice.
- Have some interests and some differences. Girls like when they can have conversations about their favorite things. I think girls just like hearing themselves talk. But if you like the same type of music, talk about that with her. If she likes something that you don't really care for, ask about it anyways. She'd love to think that she's teaching someone about that topic.
- This kinda goes with number five. Be a good listener. Don't just nod and think about what you want to do to her. Girls can tell when you;re not listening. Ask her questions about whatever it is she's talking about. It shouldn't be that hard. These are basic people skills.
- Girls love gentlemen. Hold the door open for her. Lend her your jacket if she's cold. Help other people in front of her. Man, if you do stuff like that, you've pretty much got a new wife. Girls love guys that help other people. But I think if you're going to do something like that, you shouldn't just help others in front of the girl. You should always be trying to help people. Even when the girl isn't around.
- Confidence, man. I cannot say it enough. Just be confident in who you are. Not arrogant. There is a difference. Just believe that you are doing your absolute best in everything. Smile. Show the world that you are not afraid of anything.
- That leads me to number 9. When first dating a girl, do your best to not show fear. She wants to feel like she has someone protecting her. Later on as the relationship develops, you'll open up more and show that you are afraid of certain things. She won't think any less of you.
- Personal Hygiene. Girls hate it when guys smell bad. Stay neat and groomed. Use deodorant and cologne. Girls LOVE the smell of some colognes. Some are nasty. Find out which one your girl likes and continuously wear that one. But don't drown yourself in it. A girl will not hesitate to gag if the smell is too strong. And I'm sure she would tell you right away if you were wearing too much. Just know when enough is enough.
- Don't swear. Swearing is never cool. Maybe when you're with your friends, you have the mouth of a sailor. But you should never swear with ladies around. They will look down on you. Swearing does in fact make you sound less intelligent.
- Most girls don't like guys that smoke, drink, or do drugs. They know it's unhealthy. Think about it, most girls are looking for husbands and don't want their children to pop out "different." Just be smart. Son't do drugs. Stay in school and all that jazz.
- Don't look at other girls. We know when you look at other women. It's disgusting and make us hate you. A lot of girls already feel insecure. Don't make them feel even more insecure. Don't talk about other girls. I hate that I am making a list of things not to do, but this is serious stuff. Girls are not pretty when they're jealous. Sure there are some girls that think its funny and will agree with you when you mistakenly (or purposely) talk about how hot other girls are. But it's usually because they really are jealous and are hiding it, or they're secretly gay.
- Be a lover, not a fighter. Sure some girls might like the dangerous type, but in reality, if she see's you get in a fight with someone, she might not feel safe. All a girl really wants is to feel safe. Don't be that guy. Not to mention that will give you a bad reputation with other girls.
- The last thing (on this list, there are plenty more things) is to just be positive and smile. A smile is a persons greatest feature. If you have a genuine positive attitude and a great smile, every girl will automatically fall in love with you. It's like looking at this guy. Ugh, that beautiful face.
If you are a guy and reading this, do everything I say and you will have a girlfriend and/or wife in no time. Oooh Kill 'Em!
Thank you for reading. Did you know I'm on twitter? @_rachaeltroy_
-Rachael
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